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Do you have the loser friend (负能量的朋友)around you?

2已有 4610 次阅读  2013-08-16 13:43   标签Loser  friend 
Do you have any loser friend around  you? 

I thought of it for a while, and found that I do have one. She always calls when she gets in troubles and gets upset. We were the classmates in University, she looked good, but weak as well. She has a pair of sad eyes, but soft voice when talking. After graduation, she got married in short time, and moved to another city where she doesn't want to be, just because of the hubby, she had no option, but followed the hubby. She met a lot of problems and difficulties of looking for a job, spent a big amount of money to get the official contract. But she doesn't feel happy, she complained that the hubby doesn't care about her much, doesn't talk with her quite much, every Sunday, the hubby just gets up late, after the lunch, ran away to meet his football friends for the sports, and left her alone at home. She complained he never has sweet mouth, appreciated mind...blah blah...Ten years later, they divorced. But she keeps on complaining that the ex doesn't give any money just left her the his only half of house to her, and of course also complained how hard it is for the work, how lonely is her life....

Every single time when she calls, I just try to be the listener, as I really don't know what kind of further comments I should give her. But after her calls, I never can get in the right mood for the days keeping on. I feel a pity for her, but at the same time, I do hope she can leave everything in the past behind and start her new life. This kind of losing mind and mood could only influence her future. I wish in the near future, she becomes a better person who is full of right power and energy. 
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  • ruitony 2013-08-17 08:25
    am I lucky that I don't have one?
  • ivoryho 2013-08-19 10:28
    yes, sure. For me, I cannot say I am unlucky to meet that friend of mine, because sometimes, what happened on her can teach me something in another way as well.
  • lmlj 2013-08-30 09:06
    I have such a friend. She always complains about life and work. Sometimes she would make me in a bad mood too.
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