登录站点

用户名

密码

自由联盟 - Spoken English

  • 分享

    Would you mind working with your life partner?

    3ivoryho 2012-12-17 11:07
    Chinese have the traidtional mind that family memebers or relatives would be always the good candidates for working together with the "family business", because they feel those should be loyal, reliable and trustful no matter what field they are in for handling, and we can see that usually the "wives" handle the financial controlling in the Co., the "hubbies" deal with the sales / marketing dept. etc., it sounds a perfect match and perfect time for a couple which you can see each other almost whole day long of 24 hours, 7 days a week (after being off from the work, you guys will go back together home, having meals, resting etc.) But there are not that many people considering it may also damage the personal life and personal relationship as well due to this.

    From the personal view of point, I would rather be a good listener as an "outlooker" who can sit down and be calm to discuss and talk with the life parter about the troubles, difficulties. It also may help be closer with each other. Do you have the same mind on this point?


  • 举报 #1
    ruitony 2012-12-18 08:19
    I  would rather have separate working life with my husband. I am a person that is fond of freedom and can't bear with my husband being with me all day long.
  • 举报 #2
    ivoryho 2012-12-18 09:00
    I would love to see my life partner from time to time in a day, but not face every second or min. of 24 hours daily. We have a chinese saying that absence makes the heart grow fonder.
你还不是该群组正式成员,不能参与讨论。 现在就加入